Words With Myself

Drawn to Your Beliefs: How Perception Shapes Reality

Do you believe that magic is real? Do you believe that God is real? Do you believe that numerology is real? Whether you believe all of those things or none of those things, what you decide your belief is, is what will dictate what you perceive.Target fixation is a term used to describe when you focus on a certain point and it draws you closer towards it. If you focus on the negative, you will perceive the negative; if you focus on the positive, you will perceive the positive. Your beliefs control and impact your perception, creating momentum that compounds over time.Changing your perception starts by eliminating negative input, practicing radical honesty, and stepping away from self-deception. By shifting your focus and being open to evidence, you can transform your life and start seeing the signs that lead you toward growth, meaning, and connection.

The Power of Language

In this episode the host explores how every word we speak influences our beliefs, emotions, and how others perceive us, tracing language’s power from historical control to today’s everyday speech. The episode argues that words carry vibration and meaning, shaping reality both internally and externally, and encourages listeners to become more mindful and intentional with their language.

Embracing Change: The Hidden Cost of Growth

In this episode of Words With Myself, the host explores why change often leads to loss, the fear of being rejected for setting boundaries, and how trying to force others to change rarely works. The episode emphasizes accepting the sacrifice that comes with self-improvement, distinguishing between voluntary suffering for growth and remaining a victim, and trusting that the right people will stay in your life while others may fall away.

Gratitude Is Not the Enemy of Ambition

This episode explores how we take everyday blessings for granted, why grounding yourself in gratitude matters, and how noticing your baseline can bring perspective and calm.It also explains that wanting more or aiming for change doesn’t make you ungrateful—gratitude and ambition can coexist and both help attract abundance and presence.

You Are Not Fixed: Reclaim Your Power to Change

This episode explores the belief that our traits are either fixed or changeable, and argues we have the power to change our perspective and habits. It examines confidence, self-ownership, and how reframing choices can help you grow.Listeners are encouraged to take responsibility for their decisions, notice limiting beliefs, and use practical steps—like exposure and inner work—to become the person they want to be.

Dream Without Limits: Rediscover What You Truly Want

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore why adults often struggle to imagine what they truly want, arguing that fear, ingrained defense mechanisms, and responsibilities suppress our dreams. Listeners are encouraged to dream without limitations while also realistically considering the full experience—the joys and hardships—of their desires. Through introspection and shadow work, the episode guides listeners to unearth buried aspirations, question automatic beliefs, and find a balanced life that blends freedom with meaningful responsibility.

Surviving, but for what?

In this episode of Words With Myself, we discuss quality vs quantity. Many of us pursue longevity and forgo experience quality for safety and comfort, but why live longer in a life you aren't happy with? 

"The Illusion of Control: Embracing Life's Complexity"

In this thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the intricacies of the human ego and the identities we construct. Through deep reflection, we explore how our perceptions often lead us to view the world through limited lenses, resulting in absolute beliefs about fairness, justice, and happiness.We discuss the dynamics of optimism and pessimism, and the complex interplay between fate and personal agency. By examining how our thoughts shape our realities, this episode encourages listeners to embrace life's complexity and let go of the desire to control every outcome.Ultimately, the conversation leads to a powerful conclusion: in a world where not all experiences can be labeled as purely positive or negative, finding peace in acceptance and living in the present moment can transform our perceptions and enrich our lives.

Just Dream: What Do You Really Want?

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the intricate nature of human desires, distinguishing between short-term and long-term wants, and the surprising juxtapositions that can exist between them. We explore how our perceived wants often overshadow our true needs and the importance of specificity in understanding what we truly seek. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, we invite listeners to question their desires, explore unrecognized wants, and discover a harmonious balance in life.Join us in this thoughtful introspection that challenges the conventional perception of desire and invites a deeper self-awareness to guide us towards genuine fulfillment.

Restoration of Community: A Modern Day Rebelion

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the impact of globalization on the sense of community, particularly in the West. We discuss how traditional familial and communal roles have been monetized, leading to a significant loss of genuine relationships and support systems.Join us as we delve into the challenges of modern isolation, where individuals often find themselves disconnected from larger social fabrics. We examine how the shrinking of communities affects personal and collective growth, and how children today are growing up without the strong community bonds seen in previous generations.We also take a look at alternative lifestyles and societies, discussing how smaller, self-governed communities might offer a path forward. The episode highlights the importance of rebuilding connections and fostering a collaborative spirit for a more fulfilling and resilient way of life.