Words with myself

The Opposite of an Extreme is another Extreme

In this thought-provoking episode of "Words With Myself," we delve into the universal experience of lack and the human tendency to overcompensate for it. Whether it's a lack of love, money, or personal experiences, everyone has felt the void at some point in their lives. The episode explores how extremes, whether indulgence or deprivation, often lead to imbalance and further dissatisfaction.
We discuss the societal pressure to maintain a facade of constant happiness and success, and how this impacts our well-being. By examining the systems that encourage us to conform to these extremes, we uncover the hidden truths about how they shape our lives and perceptions. The episode encourages listeners to break free from the cycle of extreme highs and lows and to seek a balanced approach to life.
Join us as we explore the importance of finding equilibrium in a world that often pushes us toward the edges. Learn how embracing balance, rather than swinging between extremes, can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.

Discovering Your Individual Truth

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Words With My Soul," where we delve into the essence of the spiritual journey as a path towards uncovering your individual truth. Life is a shared experience, yet each person views it from their unique perspective. This episode encourages you to explore, discover, and expand your horizons through your own experiences.
We examine the balance between collective knowledge and personal discovery. While societal memory and shared learning have driven technological and social progress, they often overshadow the necessity of personal exploration and intuitive understanding. The focus on efficiency and profit in our capitalist society has led to conformity, limiting innovation and individuality.
Throughout the episode, we challenge the accepted truths imposed by society, highlighting the importance of questioning and personal experience over collective beliefs. We explore how societal systems, education, and media shape our perceptions and stress the significance of forging your path and discovering your truth.
Join us as we inspire you to break free from the constraints of conventional wisdom, embrace your individual experiences, and live a life of discovery. This episode is a call to deepen your connection with yourself and the world, encouraging you to experience life authentically and fully.

Breaking Through Spiritual Plateaus: Embrace the Hard Work

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Whether you're a seasoned spiritual seeker or just starting out, this episode is for those feeling stuck or plateaued in their spiritual journey. We'll explore the common stages of learning and growth, and why hitting a plateau is a natural part of the process.Discover why the initial excitement fades and how to push through the challenging periods of refinement and hard work. We'll draw parallels with physical training to illustrate the universal nature of this experience. Learn why true spirituality requires confronting uncomfortable truths about yourself and how every spiritual path ultimately leads inward.Understand the importance of dedication, the inevitability of hard labor in refining your practice, and why many give up at this stage. We discuss the necessity of integrating spiritual insights into real-life actions and the liberation that comes from embracing the complexity and infinite nature of self-discovery.If you're ready to rise to the challenge, do the real work, and make meaningful changes, this episode will guide you through the process of breaking through spiritual plateaus. Thank you for listening.

Breaking the Cycle: Understanding Bullying and Victimhood

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the complex nature of bullying, exploring its many forms and sources. Whether it's physical violence, mental manipulation, or emotional abuse, bullying affects everyone differently. We discuss how bullies often emerge from a place of hurt and trauma, perpetuating a cycle of aggression to protect themselves.
On the other side, we examine the avoidant victims who try to shelter themselves by appeasing aggressors, often at the expense of their own needs and well-being. This episode sheds light on the detrimental effects of constantly prioritizing others over oneself, leading to resentment and disconnection.
We also explore the difficult but necessary path to healing, emphasizing the importance of accountability and the courage to stand up for what's right. Tune in to understand how to break free from the toxic cycle of bullying and victimhood, and learn what it truly means to be a good person.

Unveiling Emotional Triggers: Practical Techniques for Self-Discovery

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Previously, we discussed the significance of light work alongside shadow work, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging positive experiences. In this episode, we dive into practical methods for applying these concepts in daily life.
We explore how to analyze strong emotional reactions during conversations, identifying underlying beliefs and triggers. For instance, understanding why an insult might deeply affect us reveals hidden insecurities. This self-inquiry helps us develop a stronger sense of self-worth, less influenced by others' opinions.
We also discuss techniques to overcome fears, such as performance anxiety, by examining the roots of our fears and understanding past experiences that contribute to current anxieties. This process enables us to make informed decisions rather than acting out of fear.
Finally, we introduce a powerful exercise: visualizing your life as a film. This technique helps identify aspects of your life that may cause shame or embarrassment, guiding you to make changes that align with your true self and aspirations.
Through these methods, you can gain a deeper understanding of your emotions and make choices that lead to a more fulfilled and authentic life. Join us as we navigate these transformative practices.

The Real Challenge of Change: Daily Decisions

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Words With Myself." Today, we dive deep into the nature of decision-making, exploring whether big decisions or small daily choices are more challenging. The episode unpacks the misconception that making a significant life-changing decision is the hardest part. Instead, it reveals that the true difficulty lies in the consistency and dedication required to make the right choice every day.We often inflate the importance of major decisions, such as going on a diet or quitting a bad habit, seeing them as the biggest obstacles. However, the episode argues that it's the day-to-day commitment to these choices that truly tests our resolve. We discuss how these small, seemingly inconsequential decisions accumulate and have a profound impact on our lives.Through thoughtful insights and real-world examples, we learn the importance of being present and consciously aware of our daily choices. By evaluating these small decisions and understanding their costs and benefits, we can align our actions with our long-term goals and aspirations. Tune in to discover how to navigate the daily grind of decision-making and stay committed to your path of personal growth and improvement.

Conquering Fear: The Path to Achieving Your Dreams

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the popular phrase "Everything you want is on the other side of fear." We explore the true meaning behind this statement and discuss how to interpret it as practical, actionable advice.We examine the concept that nothing is 100% true and how absolutes can be misleading. Instead, we focus on how fears, particularly the fear of the unknown, can block us from achieving our goals. Using examples and risk analysis, we discuss the importance of weighing the risks of action against the risks of inaction.Discover how pushing through fear and embracing the challenges associated with your dreams can lead to the most rewarding experiences in life. This episode encourages you to reflect on the value of effort and sacrifice in making your aspirations meaningful and worthwhile.

Shifting Perspectives: Redefining Your Identity

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of perspective and its impact on our lives. Discover how our ego's interpretation of the world shapes our identity and influences our experiences.Explore the complexities of how our past decisions, experiences, and societal roles contribute to the formation of our sense of self. Understand the limitations of our memory and the inaccuracies in our recollections that affect our judgments and perspectives.Learn how to detach from a fixed identity and open yourself to new possibilities by challenging your beliefs and making different choices. This episode encourages you to redefine who you are and embrace the freedom to transform your life, leading to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.Thank you for tuning in. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

Embracing Risk: The Key to Truly Living

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the concept of safety and how our definitions of it can vary widely. We explore the extremes of risk aversion and reckless daring, and discuss the vast middle ground where most of us reside.We examine how our past experiences shape our willingness to take risks and how this impacts our daily lives. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these influences to avoid living life on autopilot, locked in a cycle of comfort and safety that limits true experiences.Join us as we discuss the necessity of stepping out of our comfort zones, embracing the unknown, and living life to its fullest. Because the greatest risk of all is not living your life at all.Thank you for listening.

Embracing the Balance: The Importance of Light Work

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked concept of light work, the essential counterpart to shadow work. Shadow work involves introspection on our deepest traumas and recurring negative patterns, a concept pioneered by Carl Jung. However, focusing solely on our shadows can leave us lost in negativity.
Today, we explore the significance of light work, which involves reflecting on the positive aspects of our lives—the successes, the happy moments, and the times when things went right. By balancing both shadow work and light work, we can maintain a harmonious perspective, preparing ourselves to embrace life's ups and downs fully and presently.
Join us as we discuss how to achieve this balance and live a more centered, fulfilling life.