Words with myself

Finding Balance: The Art of Patience and Action

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the delicate balance between patience and action. Our host candidly shares personal experiences and challenges with impatience, emphasizing the importance of allowing time for growth and maturity in our endeavors.
Through vivid analogies, such as the nurturing of a plant, we learn that both excess and deficiency can hinder progress. The episode highlights the significance of embracing the process rather than rushing to the end goal. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own journeys, understanding that the true reward lies in the transformation and skills acquired along the way.
Join us as we delve into the nuances of balancing tenacity with the wisdom of patience, recognizing when to act and when to let things unfold naturally. This thought-provoking discussion offers insights applicable to all aspects of life, from business ventures to personal growth.

Why So Serious? The game of life and how to play

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the contrast between the seriousness with which adults and children approach life decisions. While adults often have well-thought-out reasons for their actions, children live more in the moment, free from the burdens of responsibility. This discussion delves into how adulthood's societal expectations create a cautious, mistake-averse culture, leading to a life that feels more like a task list than an enjoyable journey.
We examine how the fear of making mistakes and the pressure to meet expectations can cause us to miss out on the joy of living in the present. By viewing life as a game, rather than a series of rigid steps, we can embrace a more playful and experimental approach. This episode encourages listeners to let go of the need to control outcomes and instead focus on enjoying the experiences life offers.
Join us as we challenge the notion of life's importance, urging a shift from controlling every aspect to relishing the journey itself. Discover how to find freedom and joy in the unpredictable nature of life, appreciating it as a game meant to be played and enjoyed.

Embracing the Present: Finding Joy Beyond Comparison

In this introspective episode of "Words With Myself," our host recounts a transformative journey through Bali's enchanting temples and reflects on a conversation with a fellow traveler that sparked a personal revelation. This episode delves into the human tendency to compare and the impact it has on our ability to appreciate the present moment.
Through personal anecdotes, including a recent experience at a fireworks display, the host examines how expectations can hinder our enjoyment and lead to a constant pursuit of more, often leaving us unsatisfied. The episode highlights the importance of gratitude and being fully present in the moment, encouraging listeners to embrace the beauty in what they have rather than seeking fulfillment in external comparisons.
Join us as we explore the idea that true happiness lies in appreciating experiences for what they are, rather than what we want them to be. Discover how slowing down and savoring life's moments can lead to profound joy and contentment.

The Opposite of an Extreme is another Extreme

In this thought-provoking episode of "Words With Myself," we delve into the universal experience of lack and the human tendency to overcompensate for it. Whether it's a lack of love, money, or personal experiences, everyone has felt the void at some point in their lives. The episode explores how extremes, whether indulgence or deprivation, often lead to imbalance and further dissatisfaction.
We discuss the societal pressure to maintain a facade of constant happiness and success, and how this impacts our well-being. By examining the systems that encourage us to conform to these extremes, we uncover the hidden truths about how they shape our lives and perceptions. The episode encourages listeners to break free from the cycle of extreme highs and lows and to seek a balanced approach to life.
Join us as we explore the importance of finding equilibrium in a world that often pushes us toward the edges. Learn how embracing balance, rather than swinging between extremes, can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.

Discovering Your Individual Truth

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Words With My Soul," where we delve into the essence of the spiritual journey as a path towards uncovering your individual truth. Life is a shared experience, yet each person views it from their unique perspective. This episode encourages you to explore, discover, and expand your horizons through your own experiences.
We examine the balance between collective knowledge and personal discovery. While societal memory and shared learning have driven technological and social progress, they often overshadow the necessity of personal exploration and intuitive understanding. The focus on efficiency and profit in our capitalist society has led to conformity, limiting innovation and individuality.
Throughout the episode, we challenge the accepted truths imposed by society, highlighting the importance of questioning and personal experience over collective beliefs. We explore how societal systems, education, and media shape our perceptions and stress the significance of forging your path and discovering your truth.
Join us as we inspire you to break free from the constraints of conventional wisdom, embrace your individual experiences, and live a life of discovery. This episode is a call to deepen your connection with yourself and the world, encouraging you to experience life authentically and fully.

Breaking Through Spiritual Plateaus: Embrace the Hard Work

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Whether you're a seasoned spiritual seeker or just starting out, this episode is for those feeling stuck or plateaued in their spiritual journey. We'll explore the common stages of learning and growth, and why hitting a plateau is a natural part of the process.Discover why the initial excitement fades and how to push through the challenging periods of refinement and hard work. We'll draw parallels with physical training to illustrate the universal nature of this experience. Learn why true spirituality requires confronting uncomfortable truths about yourself and how every spiritual path ultimately leads inward.Understand the importance of dedication, the inevitability of hard labor in refining your practice, and why many give up at this stage. We discuss the necessity of integrating spiritual insights into real-life actions and the liberation that comes from embracing the complexity and infinite nature of self-discovery.If you're ready to rise to the challenge, do the real work, and make meaningful changes, this episode will guide you through the process of breaking through spiritual plateaus. Thank you for listening.

Breaking the Cycle: Understanding Bullying and Victimhood

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the complex nature of bullying, exploring its many forms and sources. Whether it's physical violence, mental manipulation, or emotional abuse, bullying affects everyone differently. We discuss how bullies often emerge from a place of hurt and trauma, perpetuating a cycle of aggression to protect themselves.
On the other side, we examine the avoidant victims who try to shelter themselves by appeasing aggressors, often at the expense of their own needs and well-being. This episode sheds light on the detrimental effects of constantly prioritizing others over oneself, leading to resentment and disconnection.
We also explore the difficult but necessary path to healing, emphasizing the importance of accountability and the courage to stand up for what's right. Tune in to understand how to break free from the toxic cycle of bullying and victimhood, and learn what it truly means to be a good person.

Unveiling Emotional Triggers: Practical Techniques for Self-Discovery

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. Previously, we discussed the significance of light work alongside shadow work, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging positive experiences. In this episode, we dive into practical methods for applying these concepts in daily life.
We explore how to analyze strong emotional reactions during conversations, identifying underlying beliefs and triggers. For instance, understanding why an insult might deeply affect us reveals hidden insecurities. This self-inquiry helps us develop a stronger sense of self-worth, less influenced by others' opinions.
We also discuss techniques to overcome fears, such as performance anxiety, by examining the roots of our fears and understanding past experiences that contribute to current anxieties. This process enables us to make informed decisions rather than acting out of fear.
Finally, we introduce a powerful exercise: visualizing your life as a film. This technique helps identify aspects of your life that may cause shame or embarrassment, guiding you to make changes that align with your true self and aspirations.
Through these methods, you can gain a deeper understanding of your emotions and make choices that lead to a more fulfilled and authentic life. Join us as we navigate these transformative practices.

The Real Challenge of Change: Daily Decisions

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Words With Myself." Today, we dive deep into the nature of decision-making, exploring whether big decisions or small daily choices are more challenging. The episode unpacks the misconception that making a significant life-changing decision is the hardest part. Instead, it reveals that the true difficulty lies in the consistency and dedication required to make the right choice every day.We often inflate the importance of major decisions, such as going on a diet or quitting a bad habit, seeing them as the biggest obstacles. However, the episode argues that it's the day-to-day commitment to these choices that truly tests our resolve. We discuss how these small, seemingly inconsequential decisions accumulate and have a profound impact on our lives.Through thoughtful insights and real-world examples, we learn the importance of being present and consciously aware of our daily choices. By evaluating these small decisions and understanding their costs and benefits, we can align our actions with our long-term goals and aspirations. Tune in to discover how to navigate the daily grind of decision-making and stay committed to your path of personal growth and improvement.

Conquering Fear: The Path to Achieving Your Dreams

Welcome to another episode of Words With Myself. In this episode, we delve into the popular phrase "Everything you want is on the other side of fear." We explore the true meaning behind this statement and discuss how to interpret it as practical, actionable advice.We examine the concept that nothing is 100% true and how absolutes can be misleading. Instead, we focus on how fears, particularly the fear of the unknown, can block us from achieving our goals. Using examples and risk analysis, we discuss the importance of weighing the risks of action against the risks of inaction.Discover how pushing through fear and embracing the challenges associated with your dreams can lead to the most rewarding experiences in life. This episode encourages you to reflect on the value of effort and sacrifice in making your aspirations meaningful and worthwhile.