Words with myself

Navigating Extremism And Manufactured Chaos

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the complexities of modern attention economies and the rise of extremism. As globalism takes hold, our world is inundated with information, leading to a heightened desire for sensational and dramatic content. This creates an environment where polarization thrives, particularly in politics, resulting in the marginalization of centrist voices.Explore how media and capitalist structures manipulate public focus, distracting us from the underlying issues in society. We discuss the importance of remaining grounded in our own realities and finding balance to counteract the chaos. By understanding both sides and adopting a balanced perspective, we can achieve peace and harmony in our own lives amidst the noise of the world.

Balancing Acts: Navigating Life's Extremes

In this episode of Words With Myself, we explore the impact of early trauma on personal development and the two distinct paths individuals might take: one of anger and resentment, or one of protection and guardianship. As we delve deeper, we discuss how neither extreme is ideal, emphasizing the importance of achieving a balanced approach to life.
We also shed light on the common confusion between being nice and being genuinely good, highlighting the necessity of setting boundaries and listening to one’s intuition. The discussion extends to the concept of selfishness, urging listeners to prioritize self-care to truly be capable of helping others effectively.
The episode concludes with a focus on rebuilding trust in oneself by aligning actions with personal beliefs and feelings, and underscores the significance of fostering a strong relationship with oneself to lead a fulfilling life. Join us as we navigate the complexities of emotions and actions, seeking harmony and self-respect along the way.

The opposite is not the solution

Welcome to another insightful episode of Words With Myself. In this session, we explore how people often define themselves through the lens of their most painful relationships, frequently swinging between extremes in an attempt to escape their pasts. This episode delves into the psychological patterns stemming from trauma, offering guidance on finding balance and harmony in life. By embracing all aspects of ourselves, including those we tend to repress, we can arrive at a more integrated and empowered existence. Join us as we learn to navigate conflict with compassion and composure, moving beyond the simplistic flight-or-fight response to achieve a deeply fulfilling sense of self-awareness.

They poison you and blame you for being sick

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we delve into the overwhelming nature of our information-rich society and the pressure to keep up with the constant influx of trends. The conversation explores how this frantic pace disconnects us from meaningful experiences and creates a sense of perpetual dissatisfaction. We discuss the impact of modern living on mental health, emphasizing the artificial divide between humanity and the natural world, and the importance of reclaiming our connection with nature and our true selves. This episode encourages listeners to reflect on societal norms and consider living in harmony with their inner values rather than succumbing to the pressures of external expectations.

Embrace the Power of Play: Rethinking Success

Welcome to this insightful episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the importance of experimentation and play in the learning process. Many adults feel trapped by the pressure to succeed on the first try, avoiding new challenges and experiences due to fear of failure or fear of mistakes' repercussions. This episode challenges that mindset, advocating for a playful approach to learning, where making mistakes is seen as a stepping stone to success rather than a deterrent.We explore how children naturally embrace experimentation and learn rapidly because they are not burdened by the weight of getting it right the first time. Adults, on the other hand, often lose confidence in their ability to learn new skills, feeling confined by what they can presently do. The conversation shifts the focus from the nebulous concept of success to the attainable and measurable goal of constant progress, emphasizing the value of getting just 1% better each day.This episode invites listeners to redefine their understanding of achievement, focusing on personal growth and everyday improvement rather than a fixed, often elusive, definition of success.

It Is Your Life To Decide

In this episode of 'Words With Myself,' we explore the delicate balance between self-perception and personal growth. Understanding how we often misjudge our capabilities, this discussion delves into human tendencies to evaluate ourselves inaccurately, leading to self-fulfilling prophecies.You’ll discover the importance of finding a middle ground – a harmony between being consistent and adaptable in daily life, and the role it plays in shaping a fulfilling lifestyle. Through a reflective lens, we examine the survival instincts behind our ingrained patterns and the comfort zones that hold us back.Ultimately, this episode invites you to take ownership of your life journey. Learn to ask the right questions to redefine your relationship with yourself and make intentional decisions that align with your true desires and purpose. Embrace change, pursue meaningful risks, and craft your own unique path in the ever-changing landscape of life.

Unlocking Self-Worth: The Power of Self-Love and Confidence

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Words With Myself, where we delve into the transformative power of self-love and respect. Discover how the age-old maxim, "treat others how you want to be treated," can be flipped to empower your self-worth and establish boundaries that reflect true respect.We explore the visceral impact of negative self-belief on your physical and mental health while unveiling the magnetism that self-assurance creates in the world. Challenge preconceived notions of capability, confront self-imposed limitations, and compete - not with others, but with yourself - to unlock hidden potential.Embrace a journey within, where nurturing your relationship with yourself eradicates dependency on external validation, ensuring that self-love and confidence become your greatest strength.

How To Save Yourself

In this episode of Words With Myself, we delve into the profound concept of self-discovery and self-acceptance. Understanding and nurturing your relationship with yourself is not just about self-care but is deeply intertwined with your relationship with the divine, as we explore the idea that knowing yourself is akin to knowing God.Join us as we discuss the significance of embracing your true nature, the dangers of self-deception, and the importance of building trust and honesty within oneself. We address the common struggles of feeling disconnected from our true selves, the societal pressures to conform, and how these can lead to anxiety and depression.Discover the tools you need to reconnect with your inner self, the value of meditation, and the power of truth as a foundation for a resilient self-relationship. Learn why it's essential to fight for your own needs and how genuine self-love can transform your experience in all areas of life.Tune in to find out how you can mend the most important relationship you'll ever have - the one with yourself. It's time to step into a world where you can trust and honor who you are and bridge the gap between your human experience and your higher consciousness.

Breaking Down Walls: The Struggle of Hyper-Independence

In this episode of "Words With Myself," we explore the challenges faced by hyper-independent individuals who often find themselves isolated and lonely. This state of being arises from prolonged periods of self-reliance, during which individuals learn to fend for themselves, often leading to an inability to trust others.
We delve into the difficulties of relearning how to build relationships and trust, as hyper-independence can transform into a barrier preventing meaningful connections. Discover how embracing relationships not only doubles your safety and security but also opens the doors to a more vibrant and fulfilling life.
Join us as we discuss the journey from survival mode to a life enriched by shared experiences, allowing others to show their love and care. Learn why it's important to not merely survive in isolation, but to cultivate joy and happiness through connections with others.

Escape to Paradise: The Illusion of Perfection

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of searching for meaning and purpose, even amidst the beautiful distractions of paradise. Our host shares personal reflections from a recent trip to Thailand, contemplating the nuances of self-discovery in a stunning yet transient environment.Despite the allure of crystal-clear waters and warm weather, we explore how the real challenges lie within ourselves, regardless of our surroundings. The discussion extends to the lessons learned in one’s twenties, focusing on the endless pursuit of purpose and the realization that life cannot always be meticulously planned.Listeners are encouraged to embrace the act of "doing" rather than remaining consumed by the idea of "finding". As life continues to evolve, so do our desires and dreams. This episode invites you to consider letting go of the exhaustive search for answers and to start experiencing life through action, even if it means wandering aimlessly until the right path reveals itself.Join us as we tackle themes of intention, fear, and the liberating transition from dreams to tangible actions in the quest for a truly meaningful life.